Hello to you all,
I had the pleasure this morning of waking very early and unable to get back to sleep, I am sure you know what I am talking about, isn't that frustrating!
So I thought I would make the most of it and start working for the day - or am I crazy!
In the last couple of weeks I have unfortunately had several people around me go through quite a lot of pain and heartache. It's heart wrenching to see those around you in so much pain and if you could only do or say something to make them feel better then it will be better, right!!
As I look back over the past 10 years I too have experienced much pain through a divorce, death and severe health problems. As I look back, I vividly remember seeing others around me hurting for me however all I could face at that point in time was my pain because it hurt too much to see others in pain for me!! So I avoided my pain so others wouldn't be pain for me, silly uhhh.
Man, what a vicious cycle I created......
What I did learn in my time of pain was that I had a choice to; avoid feeling the pain and pretend it wasn't there, shut myself off from the world so I could hide from my pain, acknowledge there was pain and feel it or externalise it and talk to heaps of people to help me through it! I would say I chose all four at different points in time....
Just like you, we don't want to feel pain or see others be in pain, what I have learnt from my personal experience is that I needed to feel it, acknowledge it and most importantly never give up!
I get that is easy to say and not so easy to do.....
How can you tell someone who has just lost a baby to never give up....the little, adorable baby was her life.
As I drowned in my pain, there was one little ray of light that got me through every day, HOPE!!
It didn't matter for me what that looked like, how it would appear or when it would come....all that mattered was that I had hope! And even in the times when this light was dim I turned to the people around me and saw the hope shining in their eyes and that was enough for me to believe it was out there waiting for me.
All I can say for my friend who lost her baby is that, there is hope outside of the pain and suffereing...like its there for all of us! We are the only ones who can choose when we recognise the shining light of Hope.
We all experience pain in different ways...however we can all experience Hope!!!!
Be the strong light of hope for those around you in pain, it is the most special gift you can give.
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Sunday, April 25, 2010
Open the space and it will happen!!
Hi ya,
As I sit here on my couch in total silence, I appreciate what I have, total silence. It is such a foreign concept to many woman, wouldn't you agree.
Just like you, I run a very busy life and rarely sit down to relax, there is always something that needs to be done. As women we are so good at occupying our time because the moment we sit down we remember there is something to do, so we get back up and keep doing......
So I'm curious when was the last time you sat down with a cup of tea or coffee on your own, in total silence and opened the space. Imagine if you were to create this space, how would you feel, what would you see and what would you be hearing!
Are you wondering what am I opening the space for, I don't know, you won't know until you give yourself the space.
And Yes I totally understand as woman, we are mothers, working woman, friends, partners with an array of other hats we put on so no wonder there is little time to have that moment. I agree!
Let me tell you I was an expert at it, for whatever reason I did it, it doesn't matter, it is different for us all, what I do know is that, when I did give it a try I didn't like it. Fancy that not liking something that is so good for you.
I would keep myself busy and fill my calendar every day, so I was busy. That just sounds exhausting even writing that. It was wearing me out!! Little did I know at the time that I was only cheating myself of being the best I could be!
This means that I was running a very routine life, doing the same things day in day out and achieving the same results. Any wonder I wasn't happy in my life, I was not creating space for creativity, imagination, day dreaming, hope, laughter and love.
What was it that I didn't like about this open, free and clear space, Argh it was uncomfortable, unfamiliar, scary and let's say boring. As I became aware of my behaviours I wondered what I found so boring. My God, one day I realised what I found boring was Me!
So I made a decision to find the 'Exciting' Me. This meant I needed to clear space in my life, because it was so full I was not open to new and 'exciting' creativity, imagination and hope.
You may have a different reason to me, all that matters is that we open up and open up as wide as we can!
I wake up every day now with so much space, so much space for opportunities, creativity, imagination, isn't that a great place to be!
And whow my life has changed, it's mind-blowing, both on a professional and personal level.
Wouldn't you agree, this is the place you would like to be every day, all day!!!!
As I sit here on my couch in total silence, I appreciate what I have, total silence. It is such a foreign concept to many woman, wouldn't you agree.
Just like you, I run a very busy life and rarely sit down to relax, there is always something that needs to be done. As women we are so good at occupying our time because the moment we sit down we remember there is something to do, so we get back up and keep doing......
So I'm curious when was the last time you sat down with a cup of tea or coffee on your own, in total silence and opened the space. Imagine if you were to create this space, how would you feel, what would you see and what would you be hearing!
Are you wondering what am I opening the space for, I don't know, you won't know until you give yourself the space.
And Yes I totally understand as woman, we are mothers, working woman, friends, partners with an array of other hats we put on so no wonder there is little time to have that moment. I agree!
Let me tell you I was an expert at it, for whatever reason I did it, it doesn't matter, it is different for us all, what I do know is that, when I did give it a try I didn't like it. Fancy that not liking something that is so good for you.
I would keep myself busy and fill my calendar every day, so I was busy. That just sounds exhausting even writing that. It was wearing me out!! Little did I know at the time that I was only cheating myself of being the best I could be!
This means that I was running a very routine life, doing the same things day in day out and achieving the same results. Any wonder I wasn't happy in my life, I was not creating space for creativity, imagination, day dreaming, hope, laughter and love.
What was it that I didn't like about this open, free and clear space, Argh it was uncomfortable, unfamiliar, scary and let's say boring. As I became aware of my behaviours I wondered what I found so boring. My God, one day I realised what I found boring was Me!
So I made a decision to find the 'Exciting' Me. This meant I needed to clear space in my life, because it was so full I was not open to new and 'exciting' creativity, imagination and hope.
You may have a different reason to me, all that matters is that we open up and open up as wide as we can!
I wake up every day now with so much space, so much space for opportunities, creativity, imagination, isn't that a great place to be!
And whow my life has changed, it's mind-blowing, both on a professional and personal level.
Wouldn't you agree, this is the place you would like to be every day, all day!!!!
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
Life Is Like A Box Of Chocolates!
Hey,
As I strolled on the beach this morning, I took a moment to reflect on my life and how things had evolved, what came up for me was fear, isn't it funny the things you fear the most, end up putting the biggest smile on your face.
For some reason, as I was walking, the saying came up for me, "Life is Like a Box of Chocolates"!
Not sure why this came it, I don't even like chocolate!:-)
Take a moment and visualise a box of chocolates, yes I know that will be hard for you, there are so many flavours, tastes, colours, the options are endless.
I'm wondering what space you come from as you sit and stare at the a box of chocolates, is it a feeling of abundance or a feeling of lack. Do you struggle to make a decision because you don't want to miss out, or are you OK with choosing one and being satisfied with your decision knowing that there is more any other day you choose?
Because what I have realised more recently is that the way we look at the box of chocolates, ie abundance or lack, will affect our decisions and therefore the outcome.
Do you want them all now, just in case someone else takes one, I'm wondering how much you really savour the flavour in this moment. Or do you enjoy the moment and savour it for as long as you can!!
In the moment I came from a place of lack and felt that I was going to miss out, guess what I Was Always Going to Miss Out! Because that is what I told myself.
Not sure about you, but I don't like to miss out, so the wheels needed to change and the only change was from lack to abundance.
One day I decided to try on being in a place of Abundance and now I wear my Abundance day in day out. Isn't that a great place to be!!
Maybe you wear your abundance outfit all the time, sometimes or rarely, whatever it is for you it is where you are meant to be right now. If and when you decide to open the box of chocolates and you are totally satisfied with one flavour, then you too are in a place of Abundance.
Having abundance in your life, means that you can have whatever you want whenever you want it! There are no boundaries or obstacles, how can there be in a place of abundance.
Next time you open the box of chocolates, what flavour are you going to choose :-)
Anna and Kim
The Business Bootique
PS. For more information about The Business Bootique click here.
As I strolled on the beach this morning, I took a moment to reflect on my life and how things had evolved, what came up for me was fear, isn't it funny the things you fear the most, end up putting the biggest smile on your face.
For some reason, as I was walking, the saying came up for me, "Life is Like a Box of Chocolates"!
Not sure why this came it, I don't even like chocolate!:-)
Take a moment and visualise a box of chocolates, yes I know that will be hard for you, there are so many flavours, tastes, colours, the options are endless.
I'm wondering what space you come from as you sit and stare at the a box of chocolates, is it a feeling of abundance or a feeling of lack. Do you struggle to make a decision because you don't want to miss out, or are you OK with choosing one and being satisfied with your decision knowing that there is more any other day you choose?
Because what I have realised more recently is that the way we look at the box of chocolates, ie abundance or lack, will affect our decisions and therefore the outcome.
Do you want them all now, just in case someone else takes one, I'm wondering how much you really savour the flavour in this moment. Or do you enjoy the moment and savour it for as long as you can!!
In the moment I came from a place of lack and felt that I was going to miss out, guess what I Was Always Going to Miss Out! Because that is what I told myself.
Not sure about you, but I don't like to miss out, so the wheels needed to change and the only change was from lack to abundance.
One day I decided to try on being in a place of Abundance and now I wear my Abundance day in day out. Isn't that a great place to be!!
Maybe you wear your abundance outfit all the time, sometimes or rarely, whatever it is for you it is where you are meant to be right now. If and when you decide to open the box of chocolates and you are totally satisfied with one flavour, then you too are in a place of Abundance.
Having abundance in your life, means that you can have whatever you want whenever you want it! There are no boundaries or obstacles, how can there be in a place of abundance.
Next time you open the box of chocolates, what flavour are you going to choose :-)
Anna and Kim
The Business Bootique
PS. For more information about The Business Bootique click here.
Monday, April 19, 2010
Living A Better Life!!!!
G'day,
We are so excited to share with you how Rich Hot and Happy is evolving, the girls are on board and feeling pumped to bring you the best they know. This means that you now have a 'One Stop Central Station' as a female to the lastest and greatest in health and nutrition, style, career, business, finance, relationships and so much more.
Just like you, we have had relationship challenges, battled with our body image, hammered our credit cards to the point of $0 in the bank and between us been in and out of 12 jobs.
By no means does this make us experts in any or all of these areas, what it does mean is that we have experienced the feelings, you know the one's, when you feel you are stuck in a situation and there is no escape or when you eat to make yourself feel better, you really know that it won't help you down the track but in that moment you don't care! And what about those days when you look in the mirror and nothing works for you, no matter how many outfits you try on.
What we do know, is with all the ups and downs, we have now decided to choose the life we want to live today and every day in the future. And that's exciting, wouldn't you agree!
Rich Hot and Happy is about inspiring, helping, guiding and leading woman, so you can be more empowered, more confident, more informed and even more powerful.
It is only You that chooses Your future, we will give you as much encouragement and knowledge as we possibly can, all we ask is that you start to become more aware of the decisions you make on a daily basis. Do these decisions help or hinder the outcome that you so deserve to have? Once we became more aware of our thoughts and subsequent decisions, Whow did our results change. And so can yours!
What might help you make decisions that will allow you to live the life as you want, is to take a break from the hype of your life, just for a couple of minutes every day. We have a notebook with us 24/7 that we note down anything that comes up for us.
This is for you and only you......
What we noticed is that once we cleared our minds, we suddenly created the space for so much more, in whatever area of our life we chose.
Until next time, get your pen and paper ready, clear your mind. It really works!
Anna and Kim
The Business Bootique
PS. For more information about The Business Bootique click here.
We are so excited to share with you how Rich Hot and Happy is evolving, the girls are on board and feeling pumped to bring you the best they know. This means that you now have a 'One Stop Central Station' as a female to the lastest and greatest in health and nutrition, style, career, business, finance, relationships and so much more.
Just like you, we have had relationship challenges, battled with our body image, hammered our credit cards to the point of $0 in the bank and between us been in and out of 12 jobs.
By no means does this make us experts in any or all of these areas, what it does mean is that we have experienced the feelings, you know the one's, when you feel you are stuck in a situation and there is no escape or when you eat to make yourself feel better, you really know that it won't help you down the track but in that moment you don't care! And what about those days when you look in the mirror and nothing works for you, no matter how many outfits you try on.
What we do know, is with all the ups and downs, we have now decided to choose the life we want to live today and every day in the future. And that's exciting, wouldn't you agree!
Rich Hot and Happy is about inspiring, helping, guiding and leading woman, so you can be more empowered, more confident, more informed and even more powerful.
It is only You that chooses Your future, we will give you as much encouragement and knowledge as we possibly can, all we ask is that you start to become more aware of the decisions you make on a daily basis. Do these decisions help or hinder the outcome that you so deserve to have? Once we became more aware of our thoughts and subsequent decisions, Whow did our results change. And so can yours!
What might help you make decisions that will allow you to live the life as you want, is to take a break from the hype of your life, just for a couple of minutes every day. We have a notebook with us 24/7 that we note down anything that comes up for us.
This is for you and only you......
What we noticed is that once we cleared our minds, we suddenly created the space for so much more, in whatever area of our life we chose.
Until next time, get your pen and paper ready, clear your mind. It really works!
Anna and Kim
The Business Bootique
PS. For more information about The Business Bootique click here.
Saturday, April 3, 2010
Welcome To Rich Hot and Happy
Hey and Welcome to RHH
Thanks for visiting and we are delighted to have you onboard with us becuase we are dedicated to making women around the globe more empowered, more confident, more informed and even more powerful, and if you are here it means that you must be too.
We are still putting the final touches on the blog and getting the girls ready in the pamper room so they can jump on board and support you too.
Add this page to your favorites and stop past in a couple of days to meet your Rich Hot and Happy support team.
Happy Easter
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